Introverts- Tap Into Your Strengths During Job Search

Introverts- Tap Into Your Strengths During Job Search I am an introvert. Ive been born with and developed many other personality flaws and strengths and they make me the quirky, unique, sometimes lovable person I am today. Are you an introvert too? What Are the Strengths of Introverts? In case you havent figured it out yet, these are some of the noteworthy characteristics of introverts! They prefer to think before they act. They need time to formulate ideas in their heads before talking about them. They prefer depth over breadth; this is true of relationships and information. An introvert prefers fewer deep and meaningful relationships over hundreds of contacts. Introverts also tend to dive deep into topics they are interested in. They are creative (either in solving problems or in the arts) They are often good at thinking up strategies They make good innovators They are humble They take calculated risks (based on fact finding) They remain calm under pressure And most importantly, introverts  regain energy by being alone. Lets Translate This Into Skills Not all introverts are the same, but many share these skills: Good listening skills Analytical skills Problem-solving skills Strong concentration abilities One-on-one communication You Are NOT Shy You are not shy or anti-social, but that is how you are often perceived by people who first meet you. You can fix that! And actually, you HAVE to fix that during job search. We live in a society that expects outgoing, gregarious types. But this doesnt mean you have to put on a fake, over-the-top persona. All you have to do is Acknowledge and accept the fact that you may be perceived as shy or anti-social or less than approachable. It sounds obvious, but some people dont realize this is how they come across. Own it and take preventative measures. These are the simple and immediate fixes you can implement today: Smile! When you first meet someone or walk into a room. Introduce yourself first! Dont hang against the wall waiting for a familiar face or for someone to reach out to you. Learn the art and science of small talk! Having conversational currency helps. Stop Making Excuses!  Sure this is difficult, uncomfortable, yucky, and all that, but, self development is part of life. Start stepping outside your comfort zone. Here are 10  tips to come more interested and interesting. My Secrets for Overcoming the Fear of Networking During job search, you know you should overcome your fear of networking and interviewing. This can be intimidating to introverts who generally avoid social situations. But not all networking has to occur in large groups. #1. Arrange one-on-one networking meetings #2. Research the person you are going to meet so you can create some small talk questions for them when you first meet. #3. If you must go to a networking event, ask someone to go with you! This helps hold you accountable and gives you a fall back person to talk to if you must. #4. Re-energize often. Its ok to spend some time alone! Rather than try to change who I am, Ive reached a time in my life where I am OK with some of these things. (The truth- some still puzzle and annoy me.) I wish I had figured this out sooner! But maybe it was the passing of time and developing a greater sense of self awareness that led me where I am today. Todays post on US News World Report has more insights and tips. I hope youll go have a look!